How it works

A calmer path to someone real.

Aligna replaces the endless feed with a few thoughtful steps. You set the pace, and nothing about you is shared until you decide.

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Join and build your profile

In the pilot

Request early access for the New York City pilot. Once you’re invited, your advisor guides you through a relaxed conversation about your life, personality and hopes. You can import details you’ve already written, skip anything, and review every detail before it’s saved.

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Optionally connect your AI assistant

In development

If you already use ChatGPT or Muse, you’ll be able to link it, once each provider supports and approves the connection. You choose what it may see and ask for, and approve every request in Aligna.

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Share what matters most

In the pilot

Mark each detail as a dealbreaker, strong preference, flexible, or not important. A dealbreaker is respected; everything else is weighed together.

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Receive one thoughtful introduction

In the pilot

Aligna introduces you to one person at a time. A trained person reviews every introduction before either of you sees it, with a plain-language note on why you might connect, and no score.

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Connect, then plan a meaningful date

In the pilot

You each decide privately; a conversation opens only if you both say yes. When you’re ready, Aligna suggests first-date ideas in public places. You both approve a plan, and Aligna never books or pays on your behalf.

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Build something lasting

Coming later

Pause new introductions to focus on one person. Over time, we plan to add guidance for communication, shared goals and growing together.

Your personal AI dating advisor

Someone in your corner, at every step.

Your advisor helps you put into words what you want, understand why an introduction was made, and feel prepared for a first date. Its conversations with you are private.

Illustrative examples written for this page, not real members or product screenshots.

Your advisorPrivate to you
Example
Let’s start with you, not a checklist. What does a good Sunday look like?
Slow coffee, a long walk somewhere green, and dinner with a couple of close friends.
That says a lot: calm pace, close relationships, time outdoors. Shall I note those for your profile? You can edit or remove anything.
Calm paceClose friendshipsOutdoors
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Love deserves more than an algorithm.

Begin with being understood.