Aligna replaces the endless feed with a few thoughtful steps. You set the pace, and nothing about you is shared until you decide.
01
Join and build your profile
In the pilot
Request early access for the New York City pilot. Once you’re invited, your advisor guides you through a relaxed conversation about your life, personality and hopes. You can import details you’ve already written, skip anything, and review every detail before it’s saved.
02
Optionally connect your AI assistant
In development
If you already use ChatGPT or Muse, you’ll be able to link it, once each provider supports and approves the connection. You choose what it may see and ask for, and approve every request in Aligna.
03
Share what matters most
In the pilot
Mark each detail as a dealbreaker, strong preference, flexible, or not important. A dealbreaker is respected; everything else is weighed together.
04
Receive one thoughtful introduction
In the pilot
Aligna introduces you to one person at a time. A trained person reviews every introduction before either of you sees it, with a plain-language note on why you might connect, and no score.
05
Connect, then plan a meaningful date
In the pilot
You each decide privately; a conversation opens only if you both say yes. When you’re ready, Aligna suggests first-date ideas in public places. You both approve a plan, and Aligna never books or pays on your behalf.
06
Build something lasting
Coming later
Pause new introductions to focus on one person. Over time, we plan to add guidance for communication, shared goals and growing together.
Your personal AI dating advisor
Someone in your corner, at every step.
Your advisor helps you put into words what you want, understand why an introduction was made, and feel prepared for a first date. Its conversations with you are private.
Illustrative examples written for this page, not real members or product screenshots.
Your advisorPrivate to you
Example
Let’s start with you, not a checklist. What does a good Sunday look like?
Slow coffee, a long walk somewhere green, and dinner with a couple of close friends.
That says a lot: calm pace, close relationships, time outdoors. Shall I note those for your profile? You can edit or remove anything.
Calm paceClose friendshipsOutdoors
When you picture the next few years, what matters most in a partner?
Someone who wants marriage eventually, and who’s open to kids. I’m not in a rush, though.
Understood: a long-term commitment, open to children, at an unhurried pace. Is any of that a dealbreaker, or more of a strong preference?
Long-termOpen to childrenUnhurried
Why was I introduced to Sam? We don’t have many hobbies in common.
You both put family and honesty first, and you both described wanting a calm home life. Your weekends look different, which many couples enjoy as a way to share new things.
One thing worth talking about early: you each described different ideas of where to live long-term.
First date with Jordan on Thursday. I’m a bit nervous.
That’s normal, and a good sign you care. You both mentioned loving art. A gallery visit gives you something to talk about, and it’s a public place.
A few open questions you might enjoy: “What’s something you’ve changed your mind about recently?” or “What would a perfect weekend look like for you?”
Public placeEasy to leaveShared interest
Should I say I’d like to see her again, or is that too much?
Being clear is kind. Something simple works: “I had a lovely time. I’d like to see you again. Are you free next week?”
If she’d rather not, a warm reply keeps it respectful. Want me to suggest a second-date idea based on what you both enjoy?